Ejaculation control training book: Redholics HOW TO

Some of you may have clicked on this out of curiosity, while others may genuinely be concerned about treatment for premature ejaculation or looking for information to prevent it.

Let me say that my husband has no problems whatsoever in this area (he can control it), and we are satisfied with our life. I mean, we even have three children... nobody asked, nobody cares, haha.

If you ask why I read it, I thought it was a book that could help someone, so as a blogger there were things I wanted to share. And, TMI, it began with simple curiosity: what exactly is ejaculation control, and what biological differences do men, who are different from women, have?

What kind of book is HOW TO?

This is Volume 1, titled HOW TO. There are other books in the series, too. Apparently there are many informational books for women as well. I kind of want to read one of those next time.

The HOW TO series is produced by Redholics. I have already tried their products several times, so I had the impression that their ideas were fresh, distinctive, and impressive.

There is a wide variety besides this book, so if you are dating or married, please search for Redholics and have a look. First of all, the book is bright red. You can probably tell what that means at a glance, right? It presents a varied yet systematic methodology, from beginner to advanced level, that can be used in real life.

What came with the packaging

When it first arrived, the box said “miscellaneous goods.” Or was it “other”? My memory is hazy; anyway, it is suitable for anyone who does not want to be found out.

The paper wrapping, too—wow~~~ it was wrapped around so thoroughly that anyone else trying to unwrap it would probably get tired, annoyed, and give up. Then none of us would have to be embarrassed. (But never be ashamed just because of premature or delayed ejaculation!!)

There were gifts as well as the book. How thoughtful. There were condoms, lubricant, stickers, and more.

Ejaculation-control methods covered in the book

Hmm, the content is a little spicy, so be prepared before you open it. The table of contents goes on and on. You can learn methods of control, training, techniques, helpful tools, and medical approaches. It is best to try what suits you and take it slowly.

And what surprised me so much was that I learned for the first time that Korean words for penis and vagina can be proper terms. I had thought they were slang or bad words. This book uses very frank, bold terms without hiding anything.

What is the difference between premature and delayed ejaculation?

I had heard about premature ejaculation somewhere before. But I only learned after getting married that delayed ejaculation was also a term. My husband seems right in the middle: he does not finish quickly, nor does he have a problem taking an extremely long time. So I was curious about the difference between both, and about what problems can arise.

If it ends quickly and leaves a lot to be desired, think of it as premature ejaculation; if it drags on for too long and becomes exhausting, think of it as delayed ejaculation. Both can have psychological causes, or there may be physical, constitutional issues. You need to find a solution that fits and work on improving it.

Exercises and the week-by-week training plan

Several training methods are presented, including relaxation, static exercises, core exercises, and partner exercises. With images, it guides you so that you can follow along in order.

The exercise section has many positions we commonly know, have seen somewhere, or may have tried ourselves. Ah-ha! So these things can help. My husband does not need treatment for premature ejaculation, but just in case! In the distant future! It would be good to learn exercises for preventing it. The exercises in the photos you see now are only a portion; there are many more.

Wow... so this is what the perineal muscles of women and men look like. You learn such fascinating mysteries of the body. Different muscles make Kegel exercises possible, and using those muscles well changes how you tighten and use strength. If you simply follow the scheduled plan by day from Week 1 through Week 4, would things not change?

Conversation before position-specific tips

There are also many illustrated positions and poses for men and women making love. Oh!! I have tried that one before... haha, and ah!! so that is what it is called, too...!! I learned something new about the names as well. More than anything, the illustrations of men and women are so cute. Oh, how embarrassing~

These positions teach methods that may be disadvantageous or advantageous for ejaculation control. This is content you can really use in practice.

Above all, I think the most important first step is communication with the person you love. If you feel psychologically secure and convey that you care for and cherish one another, things can improve greatly. Even if it is embarrassing, talking about what feels good and what each person experiences, sharing information, and moving forward step by step seems best.

This book also seems to hope that love and communication between dating or married partners come first. I think this is a problem for two people, not one that someone has to bear alone. If trying various things still does not bring improvement, tools and medical approaches also seem important.

If it were too sexy and made my face turn beet red, I would have said, “What kind of book is this?!” But for people who genuinely need help, it could be a useful book. It is even better because it is lightweight.